Monday, December 7, 2009

Abusive Relationship is not right

In these generation, not only man are abusive but surprisingly woman can be as abusive as man. Why are there such people out there, human can never be perfect. Some of them can be physically or some can be mentally abusive. Some people say that you always hurt the closest person to you and the reality is, it's true. Most of them don't realize until its too late either they leave you or you end up being depress and don't know what to do.

Most victim who being abuse keep to themselves because of love or scare and some just want to keep the family together. People in abusive relationships sometimes mistake the abuse for intense feelings of caring or concern but sadly its not true. Love should involves respect, trust and not hurting your partner mentally or physically.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Respect for the strong heart

Why do some people respond to us it's complicated, when you ask them some personal question. It will always be complicated, only if you want it to be. I believe in life you can control most of your life style, love life or diet. What you can't control is economic crisis or losing your job.

It will be complicated if you are married and cheat on your partner, I think most people never think of the consequence before they start hurting their love ones.I've seen a lot of relationship remedies but one of the worst is when your love one betray you.

Most betrayer will have their secret relationship for awhile before they dare to tell the truth or sometime they get caught and have no way out. What I don't understand how can they keep on lying day after day without feeling any guilt. Most of them always says they don't mean to hurt you but if they really mean what they say they would have the guts to tell the truth in the first place before they decided to sleep with someone else or betray you.

It's true the truth always hurt but I always think that it's best to be honest to your love ones when you have stop loving them then making it worst by deceiving your love ones. In most case relationship will end when the truth is spoken but some strong hearts willing to forgive and I have high respect for them cause there are only a few people who willling to do that but I bet they will never forget.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Different kind of Love

There are many kind of love one of it what some call puppy love, when you fall in love for the first time in your teenage life and you thought that it's gonna last forever, it is great and exciting giving you goose bum whenever you meet your partner and nothing else matter to you, it is simply sweet, pure and decent.

There are love that has a romantic touch to it when someone decided to spend the rest of their life with the person they think that they are sure that person gonna stay with them till death do they be apart and they will propose, hoping that their partner will say yes.

Some love prepare to love you unconditionally even when you are poor or rich, healthy or disable, they never gets tired to put a smile on your face which I think this kind of love mostly come from what some call man bestfriend, a dog or a pet.

People always think that all parents love their children, through my experience it's not necessary true.

Love can also cause so much pain, hurt, anger, sad and frustration if you are not careful and no matter how much you love someone it's never guaranteed that person will always love you or stay with you as long as you want them to.
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